Assisted living costs keep climbing, and the price gap between one community and the next can feel almost random. Most families start with one number they saw online, then get hit with fees for care, medication help, or a larger apartment. This guide will show you what those charges usually include, what drives the monthly bill up, and how to compare communities without getting blindsided.
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Quick answer: Assisted living costs usually combine a monthly housing charge with service fees for meals, housekeeping, personal care, and activities. Total price depends on location, apartment size, and how much help a resident needs with daily tasks such as bathing, dressing, medication reminders, and mobility.
Key Takeaways
- Base rent rarely tells the whole story.
- Care levels often change the bill fast.
- Location can add hundreds or thousands monthly.
- Ask for every fee in writing.
- A realistic estimate beats a headline price.
What do assisted living costs usually include?
Assisted living costs usually cover housing, meals, basic housekeeping, social activities, and some level of staff support, but the exact package changes by community. Most monthly bills start with room and board, then add charges for personal care, medication help, transportation, or special services. If you want a usable estimate, ask for the base rate and a full fee sheet on the same day.
Assisted living communities rarely price everything in one simple bundle. A brochure might show a neat monthly figure, but that number often assumes a studio apartment, light support, and no add-ons beyond standard meals and weekly cleaning. Assisted living communities also use different pricing models, which makes side-by-side comparison harder than families expect. One place folds laundry, housekeeping, and emergency response into the base fee. Another place lists each service separately, which can make a lower starting rate look better than it really is.
According to Genworth’s Cost of Care Survey (2024), the median monthly cost for assisted living in the United States was $5,900. Genworth tracks long-term care costs directly, so Genworth gives families a practical baseline for planning. Genworth’s figure also matters because it reflects a national midpoint, not what any one community will charge in your town. Local rates can land well above that number, especially in metro areas or markets with newer buildings and larger apartments.
What the base monthly rate often covers
Most communities include a private or semi-private apartment, daily meals in a dining room, scheduled activities, and regular housekeeping. Many communities also include utilities, maintenance, and some transportation for medical appointments or shopping trips. But “included” has limits. Medication management, incontinence care, escorting a resident to meals, or help with bathing often sit outside the base rate, even when families assume those services come standard.
A Tuesday example makes the point better than any brochure. A daughter tours a community after lunch, hears that the monthly rate is $5,200, and thinks the numbers finally work. Then the admissions director explains that her father’s need for help with showering, evening transfers, and pill setup adds another $1,100 a month. Same building, same apartment, very different bill. That kind of gap catches families all the time.
Where surprise fees usually show up
Community fee sheets often hide extra charges in plain sight. Move-in fees, community fees, pet fees, second-person occupancy charges, and “care reassessment” increases can all push the budget higher. Some places charge more when a resident needs two staff members for transfers. Some charge for continence supplies or guest meals. If a community says, “We customize pricing,” ask the next question right away: customized how, and based on what written schedule?
Many families also miss the billing trigger tied to changing care needs. A resident might move in needing reminders and meal support, then later need hands-on help dressing or walking to the bathroom at night. Assisted living communities usually respond with a new care level, and that new care level means a higher monthly charge. works best when you plan for that change early, not after the first reassessment lands in your inbox.
Why do assisted living prices vary so much?
Assisted living prices vary because communities price three big things differently: real estate, staffing, and care intensity. A basic apartment in a smaller market may cost far less than a similar unit in a major metro area, and the monthly bill rises again when a resident needs more hands-on help. Building age, amenities, and local competition also change the number fast.
Location drives cost more than most families want to believe. A community in suburban Ohio and a community in coastal California may offer similar meals, similar activity calendars, and similar safety systems, yet the monthly price can differ by thousands. Real estate sits underneath almost every line item. So do wages. Communities have to recruit caregivers, med techs, dining staff, housekeepers, and nurses in their local labor market, and those payroll realities end up in your monthly rate.
Apartment type matters too, sometimes in a way that feels oddly old-school. A compact studio usually costs less than a one-bedroom. A shared suite may cut the bill, but only if the community actually has shared inventory and a resident feels comfortable with the setup. Families often focus on square footage because that part feels familiar, like renting any other apartment. But care pricing usually changes the total more than floor plan pricing does. The room matters. The help matters more.
Care level changes everything
Care level pricing often works like a restaurant check that grows one add-on at a time. A resident who only needs medication reminders may stay near the listed starting price. A resident who needs transfer help, cueing for dressing, escorting to meals, and nighttime checks moves into a different range entirely. Some communities use tiered care levels, such as Level 1 through Level 5. Other communities charge per task. Both systems can work, but both can also make apples-to-apples comparison messy.
According to the National Center for Health Statistics at the CDC (2022), 63% of residents in residential care communities needed help with bathing, 58% needed help walking, and 57% needed help dressing. CDC data matters here because resident support needs shape staffing needs, and staffing needs shape price. A resident who needs light oversight and a resident who needs frequent physical assistance do not cost a community the same amount to support.
Newer buildings and nicer extras raise the bill
New construction, bigger common spaces, chef-driven dining, salons, theater rooms, and fancy wellness programs all push rates up. Some families want those extras. Some families would happily trade the bistro and the putting green for a lower monthly bill and steady care staff. That trade-off deserves a blunt question during a tour: are you paying for care, for real estate, or for both? In many upscale communities, you’re paying for both, whether you use every amenity or not.
A practical example shows how fast comparison gets slippery. One family tours two communities ten minutes apart. Community A charges $4,900 for a dated studio with care billed separately. Community B charges $6,300 for a newer one-bedroom with a larger base package and fewer surprise fees. Community A looks cheaper at first glance. After adding medication management, bathing help, and laundry, Community A comes in just $200 less. That’s the kind of math that matters.
How can you estimate your real monthly bill?
Your real monthly bill comes from three numbers, base rent, care charges, and extra fees. The fastest way to estimate total assisted living costs is to match your loved one’s current needs to a written care level sheet, then add one-time move-in costs and likely future increases. If a community won’t show the pricing structure clearly, keep looking.
Start with the resident’s actual daily routine, not the family’s hopeful version of it.
Can Medicare or Medicaid pay for assisted living costs?
Medicare long-term care guidance makes the basic answer pretty clear: Medicare usually does not pay the rent side of assisted living. Medicaid sometimes helps with care services in assisted living, but Medicaid rules differ by state, and Medicaid often does not cover room and board in full. For most families, the monthly bill comes from a mix of private pay, long-term care insurance, and limited public benefits.
Medicare covers short-term medical needs, not ongoing custodial housing. Medicare may pay for doctor visits, hospital care, rehab after a qualifying stay, and some home health services, but Medicare does not step in just because a resident needs help with bathing, dressing, meals, and supervision every day. Medicare works like a health insurance program, not a housing subsidy. That distinction trips up a lot of families, especially when a hospital discharge planner says a parent needs “more support” and the family hears “covered care.”
Medicaid can help, but Medicaid operates state by state, and the details get messy fast. Many states use Home and Community-Based Services waivers to help pay for personal care in assisted living, yet families still have to cover some housing costs. According to Medicaid Home and Community-Based Services authorities, states can use waiver programs to provide services in community settings instead of institutions. Medicaid support can be a real lifeline, but approval timelines, income limits, and waitlists vary a lot.
The CDC older adult health data notes that, according to CDC data collected in 2022, 80% of adults age 65 and older had at least one chronic condition. Chronic conditions often push families toward assisted living, but chronic illness alone does not mean Medicare will cover the monthly community fee. A resident with diabetes, arthritis, and memory issues may still face a mostly private-pay bill unless Medicaid eligibility or another benefit source applies.
Tuesday afternoon is when this usually gets real. A daughter calls a community after her father falls twice in one week, hears “$6,200 a month,” then asks whether Medicare picks up most of it. The honest answer feels brutal, but families need it early. Ask each community whether it accepts Medicaid now, accepts Medicaid only after private-pay months, or does not accept Medicaid at all. That one question can save weeks of wasted tours.
Families often spend more time hunting for a lower sticker price than checking benefit eligibility. The smarter move is to do both at once, because a $500 price difference matters less than a Medicaid pathway that actually works.
Are assisted living costs tax deductible or financially reportable in any way?
Assisted living costs can be partly tax deductible in some cases, but only the medical portion usually counts, not the full monthly fee. IRS Publication 502 on medical expenses explains the rules. If a resident qualifies as chronically ill and the community separates care charges from housing charges, some families can deduct eligible medical expenses, subject to tax rules and income thresholds.
Tax-deductible medical expenses usually include payments for diagnosis, treatment, mitigation, and long-term care services that meet IRS standards. The tricky part sits in the invoice. A community may charge one all-in monthly amount, or it may break out base rent, medication management, bathing help, continence care, escorting, and memory support. If the bill is not itemized, your tax preparer has less to work with. Ask the community for an annual statement showing the medical care portion. Many communities already prepare one because families ask for it every tax season.
Chronically ill, for IRS purposes, has a specific meaning tied to needing help with at least two activities of daily living for at least 90 days, or needing substantial supervision because of severe cognitive impairment. According to IRS Publication 502 long-term care rules, qualified long-term care services may count as medical expenses when a licensed health care practitioner certifies the need. That means a resident with Alzheimer’s disease or a resident who needs hands-on help with bathing and dressing may qualify differently than a relatively independent resident.
Tax savings rarely erase the bill, and families should not plan a budget around a deduction alone. The deduction helps most when the resident already has high medical spending and detailed records. A son who pays $7,000 a month for his mother’s assisted living may feel relieved to hear “some of it may be deductible,” but the useful follow-up question is better: how much of the invoice counts as medical care, and who can legally claim it? A certified public accountant or enrolled agent can sort that out quickly if the paperwork is clean.
One common mistake shows up in April. A family grabs twelve monthly invoices, notices that none of them separate care from rent, and then tries to recreate the numbers from memory. Don’t do that. Ask for the itemized breakdown when the resident moves in, then save every statement in one folder. Paper or digital, either works. Scrambling later feels like trying to rebuild a receipt after the ink washed off.
In practice, families often overlook veterans benefits while arguing over whether a community is “too expensive.” A resident who served during a qualifying period may have access to attendance-related benefits that change the math more than a small rent discount.
How do you compare assisted living communities without getting fooled by the sticker price?
The sticker price tells you almost nothing by itself. A fair assisted living comparison means matching the same care needs, fee structure, staffing support, and contract terms across each community. One community may look $1,200 cheaper on paper, then charge extra for medication help, incontinence care, escorts to meals, and two-person transfers. Another community may look expensive upfront but include far more in the monthly rate.
Sticker price means the advertised starting rent, usually for the smallest apartment with the lowest care level. Communities use that number because it gets families in the door. But your loved one may need a one-bedroom near the elevator,
How do assisted living costs change after move-in, and what triggers the biggest increases?
Assisted living costs often rise after move-in because resident needs change, community pricing changes, and extra services get added one line at a time. Families usually focus on the first monthly quote, but the bigger financial question is how fast the bill can climb over twelve to twenty-four months. The sharpest increases usually come from higher care levels, medication management, continence support, escort services, and temporary staffing needs after a fall or hospital stay.
Assisted living communities rarely keep the same care plan forever. Assisted living communities reassess residents when health status changes, and those reassessments can push someone from a light-touch support tier into a much pricier one. A resident who starts with reminders for bathing and meals may later need two-person transfers, nighttime checks, or hands-on help with dressing, and each added need can stack onto the base rate instead of replacing anything.
Families often miss the small charges because the base rent stays the same on paper. Medication administration, incontinence supplies, transportation to outside specialists, companion escorts, wound-care coordination, and even a second daily safety check can all show up as separate items. Tuesday afternoon is when this usually hits home, not during the tour, but when your parent comes back from rehab and the nurse says the community needs to redo the service plan before readmission.
Watch the reassessment language
Assisted living contracts usually describe when the community can reassess care, raise rates, or require a move to a different unit. Assisted living contracts also spell out whether increases happen immediately or after notice, and that language matters more than the glossy brochure. If you’re comparing two places with similar starting prices, the one with clearer reassessment rules and fewer add-on categories may end up costing less, even if the opening number looks higher.
According to the National Center for Biotechnology Information, in the book Residential Care Assisted Living Compendium (2010), assisted living residents commonly have multiple chronic conditions and regularly need help with activities of daily living. Assisted living care gets more expensive for exactly that reason, because needs don’t stay frozen. Health status changes drive pricing changes, and families should expect some movement unless a loved one is unusually independent.
One common misconception trips up a lot of people. Families assume annual rent increases are the main risk, when care creep is often the bigger one. A 4% or 6% community-wide increase hurts, sure, but moving from one care tier to the next can add hundreds of dollars a month in one step, and a temporary condition can become a permanent line item before anyone fully notices.
Questions to ask before signing
Assisted living pricing gets easier to predict when you ask blunt, slightly uncomfortable questions before move-in. Assisted living sales teams hear these questions all the time, and a good community should answer them without getting cagey. If a salesperson keeps saying “we customize everything” but won’t show the care-tier triggers in writing, take that as a warning.
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What specific events trigger a new care assessment?
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How many care levels exist, and what does each one cost?
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What happens to pricing after a hospitalization or rehab stay?
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Which services are billed a la carte instead of included in the care level?
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How often has the community raised rates in the last few cycles?
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Does the community charge more for two-person assistance or nighttime help?
Assisted living families should also ask for a sample bill from a current resident profile that looks like their loved one. Assisted living communities won’t usually reveal private data, but many will show an anonymized invoice. That sample bill tells you more than any brochure because you can see whether the community loves small recurring charges, the financial equivalent of death by a thousand paper cuts.
Another smart move is building a twelve-month cushion before move-in. Assisted living budgets feel safer when you reserve money for at least one care-level increase, one annual rent increase, and one short-term recovery event. gives families a better framework for stress-testing those numbers before the first lease gets signed.
What contract terms and fee policies matter most before you sign an assisted living agreement?
Assisted living contract terms can affect your total cost almost as much as the monthly rent. The biggest money issues usually hide in community fee schedules, discharge clauses, refund rules, notice periods, and staffing-related surcharges. A cheaper community with strict move-out terms or broad rights to add fees can cost more than a pricier community with clearer limits and better resident protections.
Assisted living agreements often run long, dense, and full of language families skim because they’re emotionally exhausted. Assisted living communities know move-ins happen during stressful moments, after a fall, a hospitalization, or a caregiver burnout crisis, so paperwork gets signed fast. But the contract decides practical things like whether you get part of a community fee back, how much notice you must give before moving out, and whether the community can keep charging after a resident leaves the apartment.
Move-out and refund terms deserve real attention. Some communities charge a one-time community fee that is entirely nonrefundable, while others refund a portion based on how long the resident stayed. Some communities bill to the end of the month no matter what date a resident moves out, and some keep charging until the unit is emptied, cleaned, or officially released by management. Those details can mean the difference between losing a few hundred dollars and losing several thousand.
Discharge language can become a cost issue fast
Assisted living discharge clauses matter because a resident may age out of the community’s care capacity. Assisted living communities can require a move if a resident needs ongoing skilled nursing, has unsafe behaviors the community can’t manage, or needs extensive overnight support. If that happens, your family may face overlapping costs, one final month at assisted living plus a deposit or entrance payment somewhere else, right when everyone is already stretched thin.
According to the Federal Trade Commission guidance on consumer rights in nursing homes and assisted living facilities, residents and families should review admission agreements carefully and pay attention to services, fees, discharge policies, and refund terms. Federal Trade Commission guidance doesn’t set prices, but Federal Trade Commission consumer guidance does reinforce a simple truth: the contract controls your rights when things get messy, and messy moments are exactly when vague language turns expensive.
A practical example makes the point better than theory. A daughter tours a community on Monday, loves the dining room, and signs by Friday because her father can’t safely stay alone after a medication mix-up. Two months later, the father needs more overnight help than the building can provide, and the family learns the community fee was nonrefundable, the move-out required thirty days’ notice, and the apartment had to be fully cleared before billing stopped. Cheap rent didn’t save them.
What to flag before you commit
Assisted living contracts should answer plain questions in plain English. Assisted living operators that resist written clarification often create trouble later, because billing teams enforce the paper, not the verbal promise from the tour. Ask the executive director or admissions director to mark the exact clause, not just summarize it from memory.
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What fees are one-time, recurring, or triggered by a health change?
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What refunds apply if the resident moves out, transfers, or dies?
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How much written notice does the family owe?
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When can the community require discharge?
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Who decides a higher care level, and can the family appeal?
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Does the agreement allow broad future fee additions?
Assisted living families should also compare arbitration clauses and payment responsibility terms. Assisted living agreements sometimes try to pull adult children into financial liability if the signature block isn’t handled carefully. You don’t want to discover, after the fact, that you signed as a “responsible party” in a way that created obligations you never intended. can help you build a line-by-line review checklist before signing day.
If you’re dealing with a high-pressure timeline, slow the paperwork down anyway. Assisted living tours take an hour, but contract consequences can last years. Paying an elder law attorney for one document review can feel annoying in the moment, yet it may save far more than the fee if the contract has weak refund language or broad rights to reprice services.
When does staying at home cost more than assisted living, and how do you compare the two honestly?
Staying at home can cost more than assisted living when a person needs frequent hands-on help, home safety changes, paid transportation, meal support, and family members start missing work to fill the gaps. The honest comparison isn’t rent versus mortgage. The honest comparison adds labor, supervision, home upkeep, and the price of scattered services that look cheaper separately but add up fast together.
Home care feels less expensive at first because the costs arrive in pieces. A few hours of aide support here, grocery delivery there, an Uber to a cardiology visit, then grab bars, then medication setup, then adult day care twice a week. None of those line items looks as dramatic as one assisted living invoice, which is why families delay the math. But if your mother needs coverage from breakfast through bedtime, the household budget can start bleeding from six different places at once.
Labor drives the biggest difference. According to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics Occupational Employment and Wage Statistics for Home Health and Personal Care Aides (2023), the national mean hourly wage for home health and personal care aides was $16.16. Home support costs rise quickly from that baseline. Eight hours a day at roughly that wage already puts you near or above many assisted living monthly rates, and that math doesn’t include nights, agency markups, payroll taxes for private hires, or backup coverage when an aide calls out.
Home costs hide in plain sight
Home-based aging also carries housing costs that don’t disappear just because someone already owns the house. Property taxes, insurance, utilities, lawn care, snow removal, repairs, internet, housekeeping, and emergency response systems all stay in the picture. If you’re helping a parent who still lives in a two-story house with an aging HVAC unit and a bathroom that needs a walk-in shower, “staying put” can look comforting but cost like an endless renovation project.
The National Institute on Aging explains at its aging in place guidance that growing older at home often requires changes to the house and added help with daily tasks and safety. National Institute on Aging guidance doesn’t tell you what your local aide charges, but National Institute on Aging guidance
| Option | Best For | Cost |
|---|---|---|
| Assisted living community | Older adults who need help with meals, medications, bathing, or daily routines but don’t need full-time nursing care | According to Genworth Cost of Care Survey (2024), the national median is about $5,900 per month |
| Home health aide at home | People who want to stay in their own house and need hands-on help for part of the day | According to Genworth Cost of Care Survey (2024), the national median is about $6,300 per month based on 44 hours of care per week |
| Homemaker services at home | Older adults who mostly need help with cooking, cleaning, errands, and household routines | According to Genworth Cost of Care Survey (2024), the national median is about $6,100 per month based on 44 hours of care per week |
| Nursing home, semi-private room | People with serious medical needs who need around-the-clock skilled nursing care | According to Genworth Cost of Care Survey (2024), the national median is about $9,300 per month |
| Adult day health care | Families who need daytime supervision and support while a relative still lives at home | According to Genworth Cost of Care Survey (2024), the national median is about $2,170 per month |
Frequently Asked Questions
How much does assisted living cost per month?
Assisted living usually costs between roughly $4,500 and $7,500 per month in many parts of the United States, but your local market can land well outside that range. According to Genworth Cost of Care Survey (2024), the national median is about $5,900 a month. A memory care add-on, a larger apartment, or heavier care needs can push the bill much higher.
Does Medicare pay for assisted living?
Medicare long-term care guidance makes the key point pretty clear: Medicare generally doesn’t pay room and board in assisted living. Medicare may cover short-term medical services, rehab, or skilled care when you qualify, but not the monthly rent-like charge. If you’re trying to fill the gap, check Medicaid, long-term care insurance, and veterans benefits instead.
What is usually included in assisted living costs?
Assisted living pricing usually includes housing, meals, basic housekeeping, staff availability, social activities, and some help with activities of daily living. Activities of daily living means tasks like bathing, dressing, toileting, and medication reminders. A Tuesday reality check helps here, a resident might get breakfast, laundry pickup, a med reminder at 8 a.m., and help getting to a doctor visit, but incontinence care or escort service may cost extra.
What is the cheapest way to pay for assisted living?
The cheapest way to pay for assisted living depends on your income, assets, and state rules. Medicaid long-term services and supports information explains why many families start there, because some state programs help cover care services even when they don’t cover full room and board. A smaller studio, fewer add-on services, and comparing communities line by line can also cut the monthly number fast.
Is assisted living cheaper than home care?
Assisted living can be cheaper than home care once you need help for many hours each week, but the break-even point varies by city and by schedule. A few hours of home help usually costs less. Forty or more hours a week often flips the math.
Author credibility: I write about senior care pricing, long-term care planning, and retirement costs with a focus on how real families compare monthly fees, contracts, and public benefit options before choosing care.
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Final Thoughts
Assisted living costs make more sense once you focus on three things: the base monthly fee, the care charges layered on top, and the local alternatives in your area. Price sheets never tell the full story by themselves. Ask for the full fee schedule, compare at least three communities, and check whether Medicaid, veterans benefits, or insurance can offset part of the bill.
Your next step is simple. Call two nearby communities today, ask for their community fee, care level pricing, and move-in specials in writing, then compare those numbers against home care hours and the guidance at National Institute on Aging residential facilities information before you sign anything.
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References
- [1] Genworth’s Cost of Care Survey — https://genworth.com/aging-and-you/finances/cost-of-care.html
- [2] the National Center for Health Statistics at the CDC — https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/residential-care.htm
- [3] Medicare long-term care guidance — https://www.medicare.gov/coverage/long-term-care
- [4] Medicaid Home and Community-Based Services authorities — https://www.medicaid.gov/medicaid/home-community-based-services/home-community-based-services-authorities/index.html
- [5] The CDC older adult health data — https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/older-american-health.htm
- [6] IRS Publication 502 on medical expenses — https://www.irs.gov/publications/p502
- [7] the National Center for Biotechnology Information, in the book Residential Care Assisted Living Compendium (2010) — https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK51841/
- [8] the Federal Trade Commission guidance on consumer rights in nursing homes and assisted living facilities — https://www.ftc.gov/business-guidance/resources/consumer-rights-nursing-homes-assisted-living-facilities
- [9] the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics Occupational Employment and Wage Statistics for Home Health and Personal Care Aides (2023) — https://www.bls.gov/oes/current/oes311122.htm
- [10] its aging in place guidance — https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/aging-place/growing-older-home
- [11] Medicaid long-term services and supports information — https://www.medicaid.gov/medicaid/long-term-services-supports/index.html
- [12] National Institute on Aging residential facilities information — https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/residential-facilities-assisted-living-and-nursing-homes


